Day 218 – Grayson’s Journey

Dear family and friends,

This evening Grayson's RA (residential assistant) took Grayson for a walk in the park across from his residence. Before they left the apartment they reviewed the calendar that hangs on the wall in the living room. During the walk they sat at a picnic table and reviewed the daily orientation questions. He could not remember the day or month. He remembered his roommate's name. He had trouble remembering his current address tonight though Saturday he remembered it perfectly when I asked him.

After the walk Grayson was asked what he wanted for dinner and he selected chicken. While the chicken was defrosting, Grayson was encouraged to review his daily checklist to see what needed to be done. Among the tasks was cleaning the restroom. Grayson's response was "no". The next task was doing his "THPs" (therapeutic home program). Grayson said that he would rather go clean the restroom. He made a choice.

Grayson cleaned one sink while the RA cleaned the other. He helped clean the shower and the mirrors and was rather helpful with the entire task.

After this successful activity Grayson proceeded to prepare his dinner. He seasoned the chicken with his own selection of seasonings - garlic, salt and pepper – and put it on to cook.

During the cooking time Grayson and the RA worked on his THPs. Tonight's questions included memorization of a series of words. The RA would read a series of three words, read the series a second time and ask Grayson to repeat the words back. Grayson did well on this task and quickly answered correctly. By the time the series progressed to four words, a roommate turned on the TV and it became nearly impossible for Grayson to concentrate. At best could remember only two words even with cueing to focus. When the TV was finally turned off, Grayson was able to remember all four words.

How much we take for granted our ability to multi-task. Multi-tasking is not actually doing two things at the same time but rather switching back and forth between them rapidly. This function is currently quite a challenge for Grayson - a far cry from the guy who formerly had three computer screens going at any time on his desk.

Slowing down, turning off distractions and focusing is a good lesson for all of us – whether it is in our work, in our relationships or in prayer. I'm trying to learn it in my own life.

Grace and peace to each of you.

Regina